Totally let down
I interviewed Ellie last week and she came across really positive and keen. We agreed on her babysitting my daughter a few days this week but as soon as she left she almost went invisible. Text me to let me know the wages wouldn’t be enough as a regular nanny job although I never said she could be our nanny, but she was happy to still babysit for the days agreed and ad hoc, but I never even negotiated them down, she set her rate for me and I accepted.
After this complete silence and never heard back from her until I messaged to let her know how annoyed I was at being let down at very last minute.
Not sure you know what you want yet Ellie, I also don’t think it’s fair when you said about leaving your other family if I had offered you more hrs, as you weren’t keen on them. Until you figure it out, plz don’t waste our time.