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Gigglesngrins
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Stanford-le-Hope

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2 stars

I was not entirely happy with my experience.

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I believe Reema is a nice lady judging from my first encounter, however I was not entirely pleased with my experience. I have had a poor experience previously with a nursery and I was advised by a professional to search for a child minder instead. I was a bit skeptical cos I know how my son can be. When I met Reema at her space, I immediately showed concern for the space and told her about my son. I did not mice words and I was very honest. I explained that my son is hyperactive and I worry it’s not a good fit for him (not because her space was not good but based on the knowledge I had of my son, I told her my concerns) she was so quick to correct me. She assured me that it will work well for him. I insisted esp cos of the previous experience I had at the nursery. No mother wants to feel like her child is a burden on someone or rejected. I was very plain and clear and honest with her. She kept insisting. I suggested a test run for a day and if she’s okay with him, then my son can begin. However she insisted he starts immediately. She said she would offer a 1:1 support and she really sold herself. I was happy and I agreed. When I got home, I thought about all she said, and she says she has an experience as a key worker (which was one of the reasons I checked her page out in the first place). My son only turned two a few days and he has not had his 2year assessment or has been diagnosed with anything. I know he can he very playful and overly active but nothing I can’t handle and I don’t struggle with it either. But after my first nursery encounter it made me guarded and that’s why I searched for some certain qualities. Reema seemed convinced and after a few hours of meeting with us. After some back and forth and careful consideration, I decided to give her a try. My son was dropped off at hers by my husband at about 9am. Tell me why Reema gives me a call at 9:55am with all sorts of complaints about my child, things I brought to her attention from the start. Long and short was she asked me to come get my child and she’d give me a refund. She was not rude or anything and she seemed quite apologetic. However, I’m really really pained because she doesn’t understand the emotions she’s ignited in me as a mother that her child has been rejected and returned home for the second time. All she talked about were the same things I brought to her attention and she insisted. I understand her view but I’m upset because she did not listen to my concerns and do a proper evaluation. She kept dismissing my worries and promising me she could handle it. She gave me false hope and did the same thing I had encountered and opened up to her about. How bad can my child be? How horrible can he be that in one hour I was getting him returned and getting a refund. It’d have been different if I had her in oblivion about the situation. I am however expecting a refund soonest so I can shut this chapter completely. I think she might be a good child minder cos my experience with her should not define her, however I think she should take on what she can handle, listen to parents and do a proper evaluation before assuring parents rather than being after her nursery growing and having more kids. All these emotions I’m feeling would have been avoided if she had listened to me and evaluated properly. All the best. I expect my refund soonest.

  • 2 stars Overall
  • 2 stars Setting
  • 5 stars Cleanliness
  • 4 stars Communication

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Dear Ella

Thank you for taking the time to share your feedback about your experience at our daycare. I appreciate your kind words about me personally, and I understand that you had concerns regarding your son's hyperactivity and how it would fit in our nursery's environment.

I want to apologize if there was any miscommunication or misunderstanding during our initial conversation. It is always my intention to be attentive and accommodating to each child's unique needs, and I genuinely believed that we could provide a suitable environment for your son based on the information shared by you. However, upon observing his behavior during the short period he was with us, it became apparent that his needs required more specialized care that we are not equipped to provide.

My primary concern is the safety and well-being of all the children in our care, including your son and the other children, including the infants. In situations where I believe a child's needs exceed what we can offer, it is my responsibility to make the difficult decision to prioritize their safety and recommend alternative arrangements.

I apologize if this decision has caused any distress or disappointment for you and your family. It was certainly not my intention to make you feel that your child is a burden or to reject him in any way. I assure you that I hold a deep respect for each child's individuality and strive to create a nurturing and inclusive environment for all.

Regarding the refund, I have already processed it, and you should receive it soon.
I genuinely appreciate your understanding and acknowledge the emotions you have expressed as a concerned parent.

Wishing you and your son all the best in finding a daycare that is the perfect fit for him.

Warm regards,